The Four Agreements

Everything we do is based on agreements we have made. In these agreements we tell ourselves who we are, what everyone else is, how to act, what is possible, and what is impossible. What we have agreed to believe creates what we experience. When these agreements come from fear, blocks and obstacles develop keeping us from realizing our greatest potential.

Based on ancient Toltec wisdom , the Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives and our work into a new experience of effectiveness , balance and self supporting behavior.

BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret.

Agreement 1 ­ BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

Most importantly, to be impeccable with your word is to never use it against yourself. Putting yourself down will stop the creative process in your business. With other, speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Your word is your bond ­ you will create consistency in the delivery of your service or product, and create a trust with your clientele, empowering you to expand. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth.

Agreement 2 ­ DON¹T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

In business, as a leader, you have to let things roll off your back - nothing others do to you or say to you is because of you. It is their perception or belief. Being attached to your opinion is where freedom is lost. When you are immune to the opinion of others, you can clearly focus on objective ­ avoiding drama and time spent at the water cooler.

Agreement 3 - DON¹T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

It is critical to your business to communicate with others as clearly as you can with your intentions to avoid misunderstandings. In my eBook, Small Business Success by Design, I talk about the importance of follow-up and verifying the communication links with employees and clients to firm up next steps, actions, or consequences. Also, have the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want from your employees, vendors, and clients. You will see huge strides in your business success when you do this.

Agreement 4 ­ ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST

You will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.